Bullying and Immature Language
Bullying: I absolutely hate it when people bully others, because it makes me feel horrible inside. I wish that bullying would end, not because it harms peoples reputation to others, but it also changes how the act around others. Same goes for swearing. Swearing may be good for getting out anger, but if you keep swearing, it becomes a habit. Its a bad habit to get into. So is bullying. I have been bullied since kindergarten. It is not fun, nor helpful for the years ahead. Even for junior high or high school, the bullying gets worse if you haven’t been bullied a lot. For everyone who bullies others, then you have a bad reputation with the people you bullied (except for our teacher). All of us division two students know about cyber bullying and how it is harmful on our lives. There will be people to replace the thinkers and the stinkers.
Now for the Questions
1. How do you feel about bullying?
2. Have you ever been bullied?
3. If so how did you feel?
Feel free to answer the questions.
~xXZekromXxXReshiramXx~
I feel your pain, I know exactly how you feel because I was and still is getting bullied. Especially by boys. But once you let them know that you will not be bullied anymore, they leave you alone and end up being some of your best friends. I can give you some examples from grade 4:
ReplyDeleteBeing called:
4 eyes( I wear glasses)
weak
puny
helpless and ect.
I used to cry about it. That would make me look like I'm bothered by it. To boys it like saying "hey come pick on me more". But after I had a conversation with dad I didn't get picked on anymore by them. You might be wondering what he said. He told me "just take them down and they will leave you alone." After the talk, dad showed me how to take a boy down without hurting them. Now they all gave me nice nicknames and I'm always called by them now. I kind of like it, and I have a crush on some of them.
Well later,
Hope some of my information will help you
Minnowtail / Silent But Deadly
Taking them down is a very bad choice, Minnowtail. It's a habit just like swearing or bullying. A bad habit.
Delete- Desmond the Moonbear
How did I get here?
Bullying has been a issue to at least everyone in their lives. Trust me, even I have been bullied several times(NOT including my mom). It is a harsh struggle to break free out of because once you`re a target, you`ll be a target for a long time if you don`t get it taken care of. To me, coming from a guy who has different skin color and different cultures and all was a pretty big issue.
ReplyDeleteI once remember the time when I got pudding all over me and juice and my mom spanked me for not cleaning it up immediately and that it would stain if I rub it. Or the time my backpack was in the trash, or just physical fighting. In Grade 2, 2 guys (one from our class) would “play” really rough. I got a detention (The only time too) for fighting them. I got in trouble by a teacher that ironically was my grade 3 teacher, Mrs. Ybaehc (Scramble the words to a teacher that you know.)
who was actually the best teacher I had so far gave me the detention. Then bullying just never stopped and swearing and name calling such as weakling had came in the issue too. I decided, even if I would get called even more names, got my brother to come after school and destroy them ( A bit of a emphasize) Then it all stopped and we became to know each other more, and got to be friends. Then one of them left and one is still here today. My mom`s rule is to first, if they are bullying you, you use brain power to outsmart them. My brothers is: If they touch you, you give them a nose bleed. (I love my bro sometimes '.' ><) ¨¨¨¨¨
But ~xXZekromXxXReshiramXx~ physical is kinda not a you kinda a thing. The best way is to tell someone immediately when is starts and to say stop and walk away. I get that it won't work sometimes but still, use a solid tone and actually say you are sick and tired of this and it has to stop! ( BTW I perfectly know who you are talking about -_-)
P.S. Please try my ways, tell me if it is working or not, and then I will help.
-Whale Den
K first of all, I agree with you ~xXZekromXxXReshiramXx~ about how bullying and sweaing is bad. I have managed to control my swears. However, if people think bullying is bad, then they need to speak there opinion to others.
ReplyDeleteAnother things is, yes telling the teacher can sometimes help. However, it can also make matters worse. For example, if you are being kicked and sweared at and you go and get a teacher. People will think that your a baby and keep picking on you.
One reason they may be bullying you is because...
1- because you aggravait them on.
2nd- because of your appearence to others.
And 3- because you have either bullied them in the past or you are just annoying and do things to make them mad.(also aggravation.)
Anyways, if you are being bullied, try to solve it first using kind words and the next step from there would be to get a teacher if it is getting first.
~SuperFreak~
annoying people don't deserve to be bullied!
DeleteThat is absurd!!!!!
And you don't bullie someone who bullied you in the past you know how horrible it is to be bullied and you don't want others to feel it. >:-(
~xXZekromXxXReshiramXx~ i think wee all know who the bullie is and I personally have a message to him STOP RIGHT KNOW SHE IS THE SAME AS ALL OF US HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF WE SAID THAT TO YOU.
ReplyDeleteNow don't take me wrong but I hate any person who bullies (teasing is not bulling). Bulling kills your self respect and your trust of people.But the most horrible is indirect bulling
when gossips rip you and your friends apart ,and people spread lies like a lightning destroying your reputation and putting you in the outlaw pack which i had to go trough when last year certain person spread this rumor of me calling our bilingual friends <> .
Now to your questions
1.I feel very angry about bulling both cyber and face to face.
2. I was bullied.
3.It was not upsetting is was horribly aggravating.
(BTW i know i can sometimes be annoying that does not mean that you are not and excluding ~xXZekromXxXReshiramXx~ is something that has to change she is no more different than us
_____Mystery__Genius____
a link to learn more about bulling
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bullied
I took the time to read all of the blog posts and i found you thought into it the best.That is well done.good job _____Mystery__Genius____
Delete(btw i looked at the link it is word for word true.
~bbq~
Some people, like a lot of people, think of friends just teasing friends is bullying them. It's just something that friends do. But yes, I do agree that some people take it WAY to far in certain cases. But, there is always the time when some one that you know well or have been friends with for along time will do it to you, intestinally or not. But, there will always be someone that picks on you. Even though there might not be in elementary, there will surely be someone that will in the next 6 years of our lives, if you are in grade 6. You may think that you will be safe for along time, but even the people that think that they are so high in this school, I'm here to tell you that it will be like starting in grade 1 in a school that may or may not have many people that will pick on you. It is something that you can't change, mainly because you can only change yourself. You can tell them anything, that doesn't mean it will change them.
ReplyDeleteQuestion answers:
1. It doesn't really bother me at the time
2. No, I have not
3. Same thing
Smart Guy
I feel what alot of you out there feel,I use to be a bully to everyone that i met then i started to feel the punishment into my hart.Bullying is not something to be proud,my thoughs of bullying is a agressive behavier that can take action of physical or verbal herasment,all it does is make an inballance of power.Bullying behavior can include teasing, insulting someone (mostly about their weight or height, race, sexuality, religion or other personal traits), shoving, hitting, excluding someone, or gossiping about someone.When i quit bullying i realized what it was like to get bullied because everyday i get bullied by someone i am not the smartest man alive but there is no reason to bully me or others,so if you are bully you need to learn respect for others.You cant bully somebody cause there overweight because nobody is ever going to be perfect.
ReplyDelete~BBQ~
First thing first, I totally, completely agree with you, ~xXZekromXxXReshiramXx~. Bullying does hurt your reputation with others. And it is a great way to get into a bad habit. Take me for example. I do insult people, and that is bullying, and I know it does hurt peoples feelings, but its a habit, and a hard one to break at that. My only advice to all of you, whoever you are reading this comment, don't get into the habit of insulting people. It is not a nice habit to break. Or to have. It does give you a big, tough, scary reputation, but that can be good and can be bad. Good, because you almost always get left alone. If people bug you, you (at least I) just have to hold up my hand, or stand up, and people cower. It makes me feel strong and in charge, but I do take advantage of that fact. Trust me. It's not a good habit to get into. Don't try this at home, kids!
ReplyDeleteAnyway, onto swearing. It is pretty much the same thing. A bad habit, hard to quit, blah, blah, blah. I don't want to ramble any more. so:
- Desmond the Moonbear
How did I get here?
Bulling is something to take seriously. Many have committed suicide because of it. The people who bully are most of the time the people who think they're cool and they make themselves look good when really their not. Through the 12 grades of school you have a good chance of getting bullied, may it be once or multiple times. Bulling people about how they look is stupid. It's the genetic code, and you can't change that. Cyber bulling is the worst in my opinion. You don't know who is doing it and you can't do anything about it but hit flag as spam and report. On sites like face book, cyber bullies can easily target you. If you report them and there account is deactivated they can simply make a new one and do it again.
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1. I don't see a lot of it, so I'm not really bothered by it.
2.No
3.same
~Seamous
Bullying is has been an issue to some students at schools. Lots of people take bullying really seriously when you don't really need to. People committed suicide and all that bad stuff. If you act cool about it and frustrate them, they will live you alone. trust me I've been there and I hate bullies. People that bully think that there better and way cooler than people that they bully but their not. I have been bullied a little in my country, but I got out of it when my brother took care of the bullying. If you getting bullied at school or any kind of places, I believe that if you act cool about it, they will leave you alone. My brother said that if you're getting bullied, just teach them a lesson and kick their butts, but that is not the way to do it. you could tell an adult or your parents about it. Bullying will not stop if you go and accept the things that they say about you, even if it's not true. Also, all of us humans are the same, poor or rich, we are all just the same. I know that I tease people a bit, but in a good way like making them laugh or things like that. If I were being bullied I will feel the same way as anyone else. A lot of people get bullied by their gender, religion, or looks and that is not right. When I see someone getting teased or bullied just because of their religion or beliefs,I stopped them or tell a adult about it. Some parents say that bullying is part of school life, I don't believe a single word of it. If bullying stop, people will be equal and happy.Remember that bullying could cause heavy depression or even death.
ReplyDeleteCloudHound
I was bullied so much I was afraid to go to school.
ReplyDeleteWhen I was in third grade, I transferred to a new school. I thought my life was perfect. I had friends, good grades and a great teacher. But come grade four, my life was horrible.
I had sat at one table and ate lunch with my friends at the same table for an entire year. But now I had to go sit at a different table for lunch because no one wanted my company. I would eat in silence, go out for recess, and watch my "friends" be having a great time while I was feeling incredibly sad.
It got to the point where I wasn't eating as much and every day walking home crying and then the next morning feeling forceful anxiety! It needed it to stop! Come my birthday I foolishly thought that by inviting the three bullies to my party would ensure friendship, at least for a little while. And boy was I wrong. After one of them had told us she could come, she came up to me and said "I am only going to your party because my mom told me if I don't go to yours, I cant go the other bullies'." Now that is not exactly what she said, obviously she used the name of the bully. But It still doesn't make it better. As a result, I was so sad, depressed, and filled with anxiety that one more day in that place would be unbearable. Especially because of the thoughts they were making me think about myself.
A month later my father and I were looking at schools, and now here I am, happy and loving my every step of the way to junior high.
Over and out,
-Rainbow Cotton Candy
I have neve been bulled but if I was the first place I would go is to my mom if that doesn't work I will go to there mom or to the principal and no I don't like bullying like why do we have to be so mean to eachothr why cant get along but I have never been bulled but if I was you know what Iwould do but I dont have to worry
ReplyDeleteI haven't really been bullied but I kind of agree with you. Bullying needs to stop. If I were bullied I would probably be to scared to do anything about it. This is why bullying is a problem. People are to scared. If you want it to stop you have to take a stand.
ReplyDelete-Kpuey (The serious)
I agree, bullying is terrible! I don't know why people do it. Luckily, I have never been bullied. And I feel sorry for anyone who has. Again I feel like bullying is absolutely terrible and same with swearing.
ReplyDeletePink sheep
Bullying is bad, why do people bully it is not nice and fair for the people getting bullied. The people who bullies people usually get's in trouble for it. Same with swearing why do people swear there is no point
ReplyDeleteDEFALT(99)
bullying is tribal I have never been bullied I think would be terrible to have that feeling of hate the bully has
ReplyDelete~Rodney~
I know bullying is terrible! Some people bully others because they have been bullied too,so they want other people to feel the same way they did when they got bullied. I know that I am mean sometimes too,that is mostly because I have had a bad day or I don't feel good
ReplyDelete~~vallasorus~~
I agree with Pink sheep bullying is very bad.I have never been bullied in my life and hopefully I never will! Swearing is a habit once you start it starts become a and swearing is bad too! They are both very mean things and very bad to do.
ReplyDelete-Batman
Bullying is a way for bullies to get their anger out.If you are angry why do you take your anger out on other people just punch a pillow or scream. Does it make you feel bad?
ReplyDelete-Nugget
1) I feel sad when ever i see someone get bullied and it just makes me feel really bad and if I could stop it I would.
ReplyDelete2) Yes I have been bullied before and I hate it. I used to bully kids but then I saw how it maid other people feel and no one really like me then. But then I stopped and now I think people like me now. And now I know when ever I see someone bullying a different kid i can go and tell them to stop
3) I feel like if I was that kid I would tell him to stop or just walk away. It seems like the best thing to go if you are getting bullied just walk away and just forget about it.
I think that bullying is just horrible everyday people coming to school and just getting called names and pushed shoved and cyber bullying is also bad because if you have a facebook or youtube you basically just disappear and no one knows what happens and what ever happened is always up and people could think you're dead and make rumors and then having to move if it gets bad enough and all you wanted to do is make friends i feel so bad for anyone who i going through this i hope that your problem disappears from your life and that you can live safely and be yourself cause this can affect you permanently never wanting to be yourself and needing everyone's opinion and not being confident and not having the power then to stand up cause an overwhelming amount of people know so i hope that this all changes for you and that you are okay and are willing to put yourself out there
ReplyDeleteI don't get bullied that much, because I try to be nice and stay out of their way.But I know how those kids(or people)feel when they get bullied.And so much students in our class are so mean to the kids that seem weak to them.
ReplyDeleteThats why I be so nice to them,because I don't believe that a kid should get bullied.We should believe that the child should have a awesome childhood to tell when there older.
So what if he/she is annoying or doesn't listen.But you can change that by saying it in a nice way,not by swearing or useing anything that will hurt him/her.
Like why can't people understand that?Why can they understand that we shouldn't be so cruel to kids that just wanna fit in?Don't you even think about what you do to them,and how much you cause this,and how much he/she suffers?...Think about it.
~Scoozie~
it's not cool to bully asp shuly around kids i have been bullied form grade 4 up to grand 6 but it has stopped because i just ignored it and they left me alone because it did not hurt any more. and once it stops you feel better and if it keep on going just deal with it.And when i was bullied it did hurt because it was based on what i look like but it did not hurt because i new what i look like and it did not mater of what they thought of me.Now swearing is a whole different thing to get anger out but this it is not cool when you are older and and you have kids.So stop and think is this a good thing to be doing
ReplyDeleteMr.box.MAN
There is always a bully. No matter how old you get ,the only difference is that they go from school,and where ever they decide to go next.
ReplyDeleteI have been bullied so many times, whether that be ditched, gossip, or just plain old rude. One of the main problems of bullying is being called fat, or something based on your appearance. I know form experience that if you already feel like the things that somebody calls you, then it just makes you feel worse. For example, I speak for most of he girls in the world by saying that we are already self-concious about our weight, and when we get called fat, or self-esteem drops down and we feel like we can no longer feel good about ourselves.
Bullying makes me feel awful about myself, and I wish hat bullying could be stood up to ore often than it is. I can only dream of a place where bullying is no longer a thing, and the world could be as one.